GUEST POST – Make Your Own Time Machine by Corrie Wilder

Corrie Wilder of GRiPPiESIf only you had a little more time, you could have followed up, attended the networking event, gotten to the gym, and written that thank you note. Why do we always feel that we run short on time? As an entrepreneur and as a parent, my experiences have taught me that there is always time to do something when it is very important.

When am I going to do this? As one who is somewhat risk-averse (my full time gig contributes significantly to my mortgage and provides my family with health insurance) my challenge was to find the time (which I was convinced I did not have) to make my dream real. I like a project, sure, but finding time to take a drawing class or learning to knit (and finishing a whole sweater—go me) is hardly starting a business.

I tried simply “adding more water to the soup,” but that just diffused the soup’s flavor; by spreading myself too thin I was leaving things out, making mistakes—basically spinning my wheels and hindering progress in what I know can one day be my sole source of income.

There’s nothing innately wrong with multitasking. Some say when you do too many things at once you don’t do any of them well. I say, watch me. If I can make my kid breakfast, send my boss an email and draw a logo for a client all while learning the names of every Kooky pen and singing them to the tune of Hannah Montana’s “Best of Both Worlds” before 7:00 in the morning, I can certainly find time to turn my brilliant idea into a successful venture. And shower.

Here’s how I do it (and you can, too):

Spend less time doing nothing. If you lose momentum on a project, switch it up. Call a client, clean out a file, pay a bill, order your groceries—accomplish something productive, anything you can cross off your to-do list.

Wake up an hour earlier. Waking up just one hour earlier can give you two to three more productive hours in a day. Put your alarm clock across the room, get a loved one to pour cold water on your face, whatever you need but GET UP. Don’t just get out of bed and start working; you won’t focus. Shower, dress, have coffee and even—gasp—eat something (healthy, think cereal or peanut butter on whole wheat, not donuts or last night’s pizza) before getting started. You will be more alert and energetic this way. Trust me, I’m a mother.

Delegate. Whittle projects down to their basic tasks, and give each task a deadline. Then share the fun with anyone who wants to help out. You know all those people who came out of the woodwork when they heard your good idea? Now is the time to cash in on your newfound popularity. I personally prefer child labor: turns out my 4-1/2 year loves collating, especially if I have a supply of mini M&M’s on hand.

I do live my words: I am a working mom of two amazing kids and a working wife to my amazing working husband. In addition to my full time job I freelance for my daughter’s preschool, arrange parties, play dates and doctor’s appointments, play games, read books, exercise, give my family a tremendous amount of love and oh yes, I am successfully growing my small business. And somehow, I have found the time to sit quietly in bed with a glass of wine and my laptop to write my first ever blog posting. If I can find time when there is no time, so can you.

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Corrie Wilder is a Managing Partner and Founder of GRiPPiES, a "why didn't I think of that!?" invention (except Corrie did)! GRiPPiES (http://www.grippiesonline.com) are the “no-slip solution” for tights, gloves and socks. When the rubbery adhesives are applied to tights and socks, they provide traction to help avoid slips and falls on tile and hardwood floors. Iron or stick them on and GRiPPiES stay for good, even through the washing machine. Yes, you can still wear your shoes even after you have applied your GRiPPiES!

When not working with her fantastic amazing wonderful business partner Yelena Mogelefsky on building GRiPPiES into the “no-slip solution” empire they know it is soon going to be, Corrie is an Art Director of Brand Marketing at Sports Illustrated and GOLF Magazine. She is a hands-on mother of two amazing daughters, who spend a lot of their own playtime helping to test new GRiPPiES products. (4-1/2 year olds can be extremely critical!) Corrie is married to Mark Wilder, Marketing Director at Samson Technologies. The family and the business all live in Bellmore, Long Island.

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  • Mike Michalowicz

    Corrie,

    How about finishing the first time. For example, I had a project I had to do yesterday, and I could have called it quits with about 2 hours left, but instead motored through. Now it is off my plate, hence saving two hours for today… but more importantly I wont spend a second of time thinking about it.

    - Mike

  • http://www.grippiesonline.com Corrie Wilder

    Mike, I totally agree. Sometimes you just have to push through. My stepfather is a very powerful figure in my life, very inspirational. He always reminds me “keep your eye on the prize!” That mantra gets me through many less-than-fun-but-very-necessary tasks in all aspects of life.

    So let’s add another bullet: Don’t put off till tomorrow what can be accomplished today. If a project can be finished, finish it! Entrepreneurs are regularly pulled in multiple directions. Don’t risk not completing something important by not plowing through it all when you can carve out the time.

    Thanks for the additional insight!

    Corrie

  • http://TerryDuncanNow.com Terry

    Stickies look like a great product.

  • Mike Michalowicz

    NOW THIS IS AWESOME!!!!!!!

    Corrie just emailed me with the following… “I just put an exclusive discount code on my website for anyone who orders (you are welcome to share this with your readers too!): TPE10 will get 10% off two or more packs of GRiPPiES!”

    So if you want to get some cool socks, use the TPE10 code.

    Now that is how you work a blog, Corrie. Go Corrie. Go Corrie!

  • Mark

    I am all about avoiding, eliminating and basically calling B.S. on “false deadlines.” Prioritizing is key, and that means asking and answering the question: Is this REALLY the priority I am making this or being asked to make it?

    It’s important to set deadlines and meet them, but it’s equally important to lower your stress level and separate busy work from productive work.

  • Concetta

    Corrie:

    I wish I’d known you and Grippies when I was raising my children. I remember feeling so stressed all the time trying to fit everything in and getting everything done. Grippies was a product I could have really used with my three very active children. One thing I will say to you, since the day I met you Corrie you have been such a positive and wonderful friend and an inspiration to me and my daughter. I love your enthusiasm and I know you will go very far. Go Grippies!

    Concetta

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  • http://www.lots2saybaby.com Erin

    I completely agree. Thanks for putting together such a great article on keeping it all together with so much going on!
    I know my readers would love the article so I added the link to todays blog
    http://lots2saybaby.com/blog/?p=131

    Thanks!
    Chief Momma

  • http://www.sportzundercover.com Jared Zwerling

    Great exposure! You’re well on your way…

  • Anthony

    This is a truly motivating article. Feeling as if there is never enough time can be stressful and disheartening. Corrie so eloquently shows us how we all can do a better job of utilizing our time. After all why waste something you can never get back. I would also like to add after reading about your product grippies, I came to the conclusion it is a brilliant and innovative idea. Corrie, I wish you the best of luck and a myriad of success. I can see you are determined and you will succeed. Time is on your side!

  • Paul

    I’ve been proud of you for years and I will continue to be in the future!!!

  • Lori

    You are my heroine! Congrats on your insight, fortitude, and creativity. We think this will really take off and be a huge success. Best of luck!

  • http://www.momsunitedinbusiness.com Jenn Rogers

    Corrie,

    Girl, awesome post! So true, to the point and concrete advice that so many need. It is such a difficult task to learn the fine art of balance. You my friend have it down to a science! Thanks so much for sharing! I look forward to reading more of your wisdom in the future!

    In Friendship,
    ~Jenn

  • ronni

    Corrie,
    You make it all sound so easy but it’s not! You have talent, energy and motivation which is a powerful combination!!!!!

  • Lance

    Great Article…as a dad of 4 young kids, and a full time business owner, your words couldnt ring more true !

  • http://www.teenentrepreneurblog.com Shonika Proctor, Teen Biz Coach

    I don’t know about waking up an hour earlier :) but I definitely agree with doing nothing— but literally. Sometimes, it takes sitting down, stopping everything and doing nothing at all to collect your thoughts have an AHA moment and think of a much simpler way to do something.

    Also it is EXTREMELY important to delegate and outsource even if you are just starting out and it a break even proposition in your business. You will be so much better off in a short time ‘relatively speaking’. It doesn’t matter if you know how to do certain tasks…it’s the fact of the matter that you have 24 hours in a day and you need to be using it to get in front of people and obviously spend time with your loved ones. So use outsourcong companies such as http://www.guru.com or http://www.elance.com to help relieve you of some of your administrative and technical tasks and that way you can run multiple projects at once.

    Great article Corrie and love your title. Looking forward to your next one.

    Love and Laughter,

    Shonika
    http://www.teenentrepreneurblog.com

  • Mike Michalowicz

    Shonika,

    Thanks for your comments! You always bring great additional insight to the table.

    - Mike

    • Vwerling

      can i realy travle in time with this?

  • http://www.grippiesonline.com Corrie

    Thanks so much Shonika, for your thoughts and information! I spend a little time on teenentrepreneurblog.com, and as a parent I can only hope that my experience and attitude serves to empower my kids to GO for it. Whatever IT is (ok ok IT must be within reason and legal, but hey, I’m a mom so I can’t help but clarify IT).

    I will certainly spend more time reading Renegade CEOs, definitely will learn a lot there!

    –Corrie

  • Nancy

    Corrie -

    Great article, though I wished I was as productive as you! With two small children and a husband, I know how time-constrained alot of working parents can be. Utilizing your resources (including small children and a husband that can be bribed) is an excellent way to get some product testing done. Kudos to you!